Hey, goddess… wherever you may be… if you truly want to conquer my heart read this entry carefully 😉
You see, I am HSP… so at first, you’re gonna love my intensity, then you’re gonna hate me and if you can transcend it, we’re gonna dive deep… infinitely…
At first, I will seem to be a bit contradictory…
Sometimes I’ll seem to be a badass and then again you’ll recognize the good heart behind.
Sometimes I’ll seem to be soft and then again you’ll recognize the strength behind.
Sometimes I’ll seem to be unapologetic and I then again you’ll value the honesty behind.
These are the virtues of a Scorpio and besides HSP it’s the reason for my intensity…
So, if you want me to love you we’ll have to share these three virtues: Honesty, trust and healthy vulnerability!
Honesty means that…
… we’ll put our masks off and celebrate our imperfection… we show us to each other as we truly are… perhaps in a way we’ve never been able to before.
… our fuses will burn at times as we trust each other to be able to handle it.
… we’ll show each other what we see in the other… our light side but also those things that we believe are hindering us from diving deep.
So we’ll need to trust each other!
Trust means that…
… we’ll face each other with compassion and understanding and are willing to hang in there together even if it is uncomfortable at times.
… we’ll be able and willing to face our deepest fears.
… we’ll not feel judged even if we share with each other our reality, as we do it out of love… not for the sake of judgment or degradation.
So we’ll need to show each other our vulnerability!
Vulnerability means that…
… we show us to each other naked…
… our traumas…
… our fears…
… our weaknesses…
… our shame…
… we open up to each other to grow personally… to give a deep relationship a true chance.
By showing each other our vulnerability, do trust each other and are honest with each other we create true intimacy!
So, no matter if we are lovers – platonic or physical – honesty and trust are the framework of our relationship. And showing our healthy vulnerability is how we encounter… it is not the weakness of the coward but the virtue of the courageous.
You see, my love is not unconditional… if you expect that from me, think again… I’m neither enlightened nor your daddy!
And if you don’t want to roll this way, I’m sorry, but even if you are the most infatuating person and are madly in love with me, we won’t dive deep… we’ll just have some superficial relationship.
But if we’ll dive deep together…
… we’ll discover the world out there, inside us and the whole universe.
… we’ll face each other at eye height and we’ll be best friends.
… we’ll support each other in doing what we really want to do.
… we’ll give each other the freedom we need… connecting moment by moment… sometimes we’ll be our individual self and sometimes we’ll be together… but we’ll always be there for each other.
… we’ll protect each other and give each other emotional security.
… we’ll be mindful with one another and accept and respect each other as we are.
… we’ll live a life together and support each other facing our fears and healing our wounds.
… we’ll melt intensely with each other.
… we’ll live intimacy tantrically, cosmically and ecstaticly.
It might not be the exiting, dramatic love you’re used to but the quiet, gentle, mindful love where we love, laugh, enjoy, dance and celebrate life.
Essentially, I will love you for who you really are!
And you will start to wonder if this is really possible… if someone can really be that intensely in love with you.
So, if you’re gonna believe in my path we’ll be best friends, I’ll give you security and treat you like a goddess 😍
You wanna roll with me?!? My conditions are honesty, trust and vulnerability!
And apart from these three virtues, I’ll love you unconditionally!
I’m looking forward to loving you 😊
See you soon!